You’re prepping for the big day and there’s so much to do: Venues to preview, vows to write, cake to sample, gifts to buy. Wait — gifts to buy? Aren’t you supposed to be getting all the gifts? The simple answer is “yes,” but the real answer is far more complicated. All those people you painstakingly asked (or will ask) to participate in your big day deserve a little love, too. After all, they’re spending their hard-earned money and time to help you get hitched.
This list is all about the people in your life from your maid or matron of honor to the groomsmen to yes, even the mostly-quiet future father-in-law (who is just happy he’s not footing the wedding bill). We’ve got claws and robes for the bridesmaids, socks and clocks for the groomsmen and the cutest “security detail” set for the keeper of your rings. Whatever their role in your nuptials, show them how much they mean to you with a small token of your appreciation — straight from Amazon.
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Your Claws Are Showing
If you have long hair, you already know that sometimes you just need it off. your. neck. This set of claw clips is perfect for the entire bridal party so you can add them to gift bags for your crew or just break them out when it’s time to do makeup. This eight-piece set should be more than enough for you and your bride tribe.
In the Flower of Youth
I hate going to weddings but the absolute best parts are when the flower girl and ring-bearer make their appearance. Help them feel extra special with this headpiece that’s adorned with crystal dew-dropped blossom and leaves, dainty pearl and crystal buds. It’ll be her new favorite hair accessory long after your big day is over. A soft, adjustable ribbon won’t hurt her head and stays in place.
Robes for the Squad
We’re going to discuss a personalized robe option later but this satin, rhinestone-adorned version is a budget-friendly choice with a variety of word choices. Soft and comfortable, this features lightweight fabric and a tie closure. These come in two sizes to accommodate sizes up to XXL. Choose from options that include “bride,” “bridesmaid,” “maid of honor,” “mother of the bride,” “matron of honor,” and “mother of the groom” versions.
Hit ‘Em with Some Sass Sash
A wedding is more than just the big day; it’s all of the events leading up to it like showers and bachelorette parties. This set of sashes puts your crew in their place with terms like “wild thing,” maid of dishonor” and “hot mess.” These will be loads of fun to wear out to bars, restaurants, and clubs to let everyone know it’s your special moment.
Go Under Cover
Bridesmaids’ dresses run the gamut but, regardless of the style, nobody wants a “wardrobe malfunction” forever immortalized in a photo album. No one will see these silicone pasties but your bridal party will know they’re there. These come in three different flesh tones and two sizes and arrive in their own gift box. These are soft, secure and reusable, making them the gift that keeps on giving.
In Your Glad Rags
Do fathers-in-law cry at weddings? I don’t feel like they do but they might after reading the beautiful message on this navy embroidered handkerchief. Presented in a 12 by 12-inch size made from 100 percent cotton, this hankie is navy and has white embroidery, not printing. This is also available in a “father” version for your own dear ol’ dad.
Here Comes the Sun
You probably have an immediate reaction (good or bad) to the idea of your groomsmen wearing sunglasses during the ceremony, but this set of themed sunglasses could make for some really cool pictures. This seven-piece set comes in several different styles, labeled with “groom” and “groomsman.” These have plastic frames and lenses with a scratch-resistant coating so they can wear them for years to come.
Link in the Chain
If you’re looking for a last-minute gift that has all the markings of a personalized gift without the added time or expense, this set of cufflinks and matching tie bar will fit the bill. Available in all of the most common letters of the alphabet, this is a set that screams “expensive” but will only run you $14. And, since they’re not wedding day-specific, he can wear them anytime.
Tie the Knot
Whether you’re looking for something unique, having a tropical wedding, or simply don’t want to rent overpriced clothes, this four-pack of floral ties is a great buy at four for $20. Choose from three types of floral options, all made from 100 percent cotton. Your groomsmen will appreciate the price break and you’ll love having unique photos that shun traditional, stuffy neckwear.
Sock It to Me
Every man I know loves socks. He may not admit it but deep down, he’s a fan. This set puts everyone in their place with wording that indicates the groom, groomsman, and best man. These socks add a fun twist to your big day with a whimsical touch that won’t be too distracting. (Distracting from you, of course. You’re the bride; it’s all eyes on you!)
Suspend Your Disbelief
One of my favorite wedding looks is suspenders. Now, you can purchase them, with an accompanying bow tie, for less than $12 on Amazon. (Have you stopped looking at those expensive rentals yet?) This set comes in more than a dozen colors and can be bought as a single or in a pack of up to 12. Reusable, these feature sturdy metal clips and high-quality fabric.
Watch What You’re Doing
Pocket watches may belong to a generation long ago but there’s still something classic about gifting one. This set includes six watches in silver, gold, gunmetal, or rose gold and each can be personalized to the name of the recipient. Enjoy vintage styling in a new piece that also comes with the chain and a nice gift box for presentation.
Off the Cuff
The most thoughtful gifts are the ones they can use and reuse hundreds, if not thousands, of times. This stainless steel open bangle has a lovely leaf design on the outside with a hidden message, “My maid of honor today, my sister forever,” on the inside. (You can choose from other messages as well.) It’s a hidden note of a shared secret between you and your closest friends.
Fit to Be Tied
Spiral hair ties are all the rage lately, you know, in case you haven’t been out in any store in the past two years. These ties are customized for a wedding party and cleverly designed to look like part of a diamond ring with the wording, “To have and to hold your hair back.” These come in packs of up to 25 in either silver or champagne.
Hang On
Nothing says, “I’m extra,” like having your own custom wedding hanger and you don’t have to be the bride to get in on the idea. These hangers are completely customizable from the wire color to the bow (and, of course, the name). This would be the ideal gift for the wedding party member who has everything. One with their name will be good forever!
Tie the Knot
Of all the weddings I’ve been a part of, my favorite gifts have been the ones that aren’t readily apparent they’re wedding-related. This bracelet cleverly says “tied the knot” (with an actual knot in the design) while also including a charm with their initial. Choose from gold, silver and rose gold options without breaking the bank: Each of these is only about $13.
Robe Them in Satin
We talked about robes a few products up but this lace-trimmed kimono option is perfect if your budget is just a tad more flexible because you can personalize them with their name and/or initial. Available in sizes that work for your flower girl all the way up to your fuller-figured friends, these are so dainty and elegant with nearly 10 soft colors to choose from.
Leader of the (Fanny) Pack
Get your fanny ready for your bachelorette party with this set of fanny packs that harkens back to the 1980s with its assortment of bright, vivid colors. Emblazoned with the word “Party” (and the bride-to-be’s “Wife of the Party”), these will be a hit for stashing dollar bills (ahem, just in case) or small bottles of, um, juice. Yeah, juice. That’s it.
Put a Sock in It
We talked socks for the guys but I couldn’t leave the ladies out with this set for the bride’s friends, complete with “bride,” maid of honor” and “bridesmaid” designations. These come in black, gray and a speckled option in a one-size-fits-all design. You’ll even get free stocking labels that you can wrap around the socks and personalize for a better gift presentation.
The Initial Idea
This is one gift they’ll always remember, mostly because they’ll be using it long after your big day is over. A personalized tote with their initial in a goes-with-anything black and white color palette isn’t something they’ll soon forget. With an inner pocket and outer button closure, this is the perfect bag for everything from a weekend away to stashing farmers’ market finds.
Out on Your Ear
Help them remember the day you tied the knot — literally — with these knot-shaped stud earrings. One reviewer said, “I used these to put inside my bridesmaids’ proposal boxes and they loved them!! It’s very pretty and sparkly! I like it so much, I’m getting the bracelets to match.” Lucky girls! These come in a variety of finishes with cute gift cards.
Tie One On
Who doesn’t love a practical gift? This necktie beer holder is likely to be the gift your wedding party can’t stop talking about. A fully-functional tie in itself, it has a neoprene pocket sized just right for their favorite brew. (They also hold regular-sized soda cans, too.) Available in a six- or 10-pack, these would make a hilarious photo for the wedding album.
Close to the Vest
Ballin’ on a budget or just too dang conscious of how expensive everything is these days? Tell them they can buy their vest (give them the link) and they’ll breathe a sigh of relief at the price — just $29. Available in more than a dozen colors, these vests have all the makings of a more expensive choice (three buttons, a decorative chest pocket and two usable side pockets).
Flower Power
While we’re shopping for groomsmen attire, we might as well address the boutonniere situation, too. Fresh flowers are pricy but these pre-made options are not at just $18 for a set of eight. You can choose from four color assortments here but, let’s be honest, nobody is looking that closely at the flowers on the groomsmen’s lapels. Save yourself some dough with this economical selection.
Security Detail
This is my absolute favorite product on this list and is sure to be a hit with your ring-bearer, too. The ring bearer security kit looks like a real security detail complete with a badge, sunglasses and an earpiece. He’ll get a kick out of feeling like he’s in charge, throwing your ex out of the ceremony (if he dares to show up!).
The Bearer of Gifts
“Ring bearer” is so 1999; it will sound much hipper if you have a “ring dude.” This T-shirt adds a bit of sass to what’s probably already a pretty sassy little guy. He’ll feel decidedly official when he puts this one. Available in five colors and seven sizes, you’ll find something for your ring dude whether he’s two or 10.
A Flick of the Wrist
There’s never a wrong time to buy someone an Alex and Ani bangle and saying “thank you” to your mother on your big day is a sure-fire win. These bracelets come in either silver or gold and have the words “mother of the bride” on the charm. She can wear it solo or stack it with other bangles for a chunky look.
Shake Someone’s Tree
You probably already know that mothers-in-law can be tricky. Start winning her over early with a gift just for her. This tree of life necklace comes in a gift box that says, “Thank you for extending the branches of your family tree to me.” It might not completely win her over, but it’s not a bad start. And, it’ll look like you spent a lot more than $39.
The Perfect “I Do” Shoe
It’s pretty likely you’ll be getting ready for your nuptials somewhere besides your home. These giftable slide slippers from Dearfoam come in “I do” and “I do crew” varieties and are perfect for slipping on at your venue before it’s time to throw on your wedding shoes. You can still wear these after the wedding: “Do you want coffee?” “I do.” Do you want to sleep in? “I do.” You get the idea.
Flower Child
Little girls love trinkets so give her one of her own with this flower girl necklace that lets her know “your love and flowers make our wedding complete.” Available in six variations, this necklace is plated in 18K silver that’s nickel-free and hypoallergenic. And, if it breaks in the first three years, the manufacturer will replace it — no questions asked.
A Heart of Gold
Flower girls aren’t the only ones who appreciate trinkets; big girls do too. These dainty initial heart necklaces are perfectly small and thoughtful with both plan and CZ pave accents. One reviewer said, “The best necklace I’ve ever had!!! It’s the perfect size and length, so dainty and flattering!” These are an inexpensive option, too, at just $13 and some change.
Give Them the Bag
All these gifts you’re buying plus all of the stuff they’ll bring requires someplace good to stash it. These bride tribe makeup bags are perfect for everything from cosmetics to jewelry to everything in between. You’ll get a set of eight (including one for you) with this purchase, which you could totally use as a gift bag for one of those adorable pieces of jewelry further up our list.
Tear Jerker
There’s always that one person in a wedding party who doesn’t really have a defined role but deserves a gift anyway. Whether it’s a step-parent, grandmother or other relative or person who is “like a mom” to you, this embroidered hankie offers a lovely sentiment. Embroidered with blue thread and featuring a soft scalloped edge, it’s guaranteed to bring on some “happy tears” just by being given.
Fit to be Tied
I love a good tie bar especially when it says something sweet on it like, “I loved you first.” These are available in a variety of designs and either white gold or rose gold. One reviewer offered this: “My dad loved it and proudly wore it as he walked me down the aisle. If you’re debating whether to purchase it, do it. The small things mean the most!”
Keep Watch Over
Watches are a timeless gift, which is ironic since they do keep the time. This watch features a wooden face and a genuine leather band but the best part is the engraving on the bottom, which can be completely customized or chosen from the list of pre-made options. For roughly $30, it’s a gift that’ll keep on giving for years to come.
Out of the Box
I actually own this zippered jewelry box and I can attest to how great it is, whether they’re using it at home or on the road. Mine isn’t printed with the word “bridesmaid” on the top but that adds a nice element. They’ll appreciate the various compartments for rings, necklaces, charms and more. (And, yes, you’ll get one, too, in white with “bride” printed on it.)
Survival of the Fittest
A big part of the wedding day is simply surviving it. And, that goes for you, your new husband, your parents, and the rest of the wedding party. These wedding survival kits are great to have on hand for various emergencies like a missing button, a broken nail or a hair emergency. These thoughtful kits are already assembled so you can just hand them out and look like the superstar you are.